Become Better Together

“Sometimes I just don’t understand my spouse.”

“I secretly wish he/she could be more like me.”

“I’d be happier if my husband/wife would change.”

“It feels like my marriage is missing something but I don’t know what.”

If you’ve ever said any of the above then you’re in the right place (and you're not the only one). Our culture tells us marriage is as simple as falling in love and living happily ever after. But we all know that isn’t reality.

You’ve probably been told to make your marriage work you just need to try harder. Not only is that inaccurate, it’s incredibly frustrating.

The challenges in your introvert/extrovert marriage aren’t because you aren’t trying hard—you wouldn’t be here if that were true.

The problem is you’re missing essential information and insights about introvert/extrovert marriages. This means you’re unknowingly making mistakes that hurt your relationship.

This course will give you the information and insights you need to stop making the same mistakes and instead make the most of your introvert/extrovert marriage.

On your wedding day you said, “I do” and I want you to be able to repeat those words after finishing this course…

I do understand my spouse.

I do have a stronger marriage.

I do know God made us different AND better together.

Cheering You On,

Holley Gerth

Bestselling author, counselor, and life coach

Course curriculum

  • 1


    • Welcome and Overview

    • Master Worksheets

  • 2

    Understand Yourself and Your Spouse

    • What It Really Means to be an Introvert or Extrovert

  • 3

    Refocus on Strengths Instead of Struggles

    • Video: Refocus on Strengths Instead of Struggles

  • 4

    Learn Your Spouse's Happiness Style

    • Video: Learn Your Spouse's Happiness Style

  • 5

    Speak the Five Love Languages at the Right Volume

    • Video: Speak the Five Love Languages at the Right Volume

  • 6

    Discover Your Energy Differences

    • Video: Discover Your Energy Differences

  • 7

    Become a Master Communicator

    • Video: Become a Master Communicator

    • Bonus: Communication Tips from Dorina and Shawn

    • Bonus: Communication Tips from Melinda and Chris

    • Bonus: Communication Tips from Suzie and Richard

  • 8

    Congratulations, You Did It!

    • More Resources


  • Can I apply this course to other relationships?

    Yes! While the course focuses on marriage, you can apply the principles to almost any introvert/extrovert relationship.

  • How long will it take to complete the course?

    The course is self-paced and should take about two hours to complete. You can do the course all at once or over a period of time that works for you.

  • How is the course structured?

    Each section has a short video to watch and worksheets to help you apply what you learn in simple, practical ways.

  • Does my spouse need to do the course with me?

    You can do the course on your own or with your spouse.

  • Can I take the course if I'm dating, engaged, or single and just want to prepare for marriage?

    Yes! You'll be getting a headstart on a strong marriage and avoiding common mistakes that could hurt your relationship.

  • How long will I have access to the course?

    You'll have a minimum of one year to complete the course.

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Money Back Guarantee

If you complete the course (send me a screenshot showing 100% complete) and it's not helpful, I’ll refund your money with no questions asked.